So, first post I’ve written on my tablet, but bed’s too comfy to leave and I got thoughts to chew on before I go to sleep.
It started by thinking about my current “entertainment” budget, then recalling how some friends of mine were scraping by, and how they think about money, and then how I treat money and what I’d found out recently about where I stand.
Maybe it’s best if I start with my situation. My current job is salaried, and I honestly probably pay less attention to the amount than I should. For example, there’s a bonus program going on for completing some training that we need to do anyways, but it had to be done on our own time. I wanted to do it because it needed to be done anyways, and I had some art in mind I wanted to spend it on, but I almost missed the deadline because the money wasn’t that important – and it was half of a single paycheck in total!
Currently my life us fairly comfortable, though not extravagent. Thanks to my current arrangements, bills are mostly covered, so most of my paychecks go into savings. These are relatively temporary arrangenents though, so I still treat that money as if it was already spent, and ignore the total amount sitting in savings unless I need to move money. This keeps me from getting used to overspending and having issues later due to that.
My perspective on money is informed by this treatment of pay as well. I still feel $200 is a lot to spend on anything, and spending $100-ish on single optional purchases still makes me internally cringe a bit. When I’m using anything that’s triple digits in price, I usually go over it several times before pressing “buy.” I still try to pay cash for most small offline purchases even!
Well I was looking at some statistics the other day about salary ranges and was surprised at the ranges. I had thought I was in the lower-middle class range, but apparently I’m solidly middle class? My dad before retirement was actually upper-middle, but it never felt like it growing up. We never really lived like it either.
My friends on the other hand are in a worse situation, though it’s partly of their own making – they have too many dogs and cats to feed and care for, and at least one of them doesn’t really want to get rid of any. They’be got 4 dogs, 9 cats I can think of, plus 2 more kittens, and then 4-6 people, depending on if either of those last two are covering their own stuff or not.
They’re basically running off two incomes at the moment, with a third partially contributing via rent. Money is tight, and even $3 can seem like a lot at times I think. They still manage to squeeze in some “entertainment” purchases, it doesn’t feel like they really budget well in advance. They’re basically going paycheck-to-paycheck right now from my perspective.
Now I’m wondering if I should see if I can help with some electronic budgeting. At a basic level anyways.
Now I’m not sure where I was going with this. I try to treat money as if I don’t have it, track my monthly spending on “toys,” balk at big purchases, but a meal out every now and then or an occasional $3-$10 purchase doesn’t seem excessive. My dad on the other hand will buy a 6-month sub to an MMO he hasn’t even tried yet and think nothing of it. I’ve got a co-worker who has been subbed to WoW since Vanilla, even though he hasn’t played in years. And then for the people I mentioned earlier even a month of WoW is a significant cost.
When you don’t have it, money is precious. If you have a lot and start to use it, your mental scale for what is and isn’t expensive can change, which can then lead to trouble later if your supply dries up, which I guess is all about lifestyle. Find the lowest lifestyle you’re comfortable at, then put all the extra away in case you ever actually need it. Even if you don’t follow a hard budget, at least track it so you can catch yourself if you start overspending. At least, that’s what I’m trying to do.
After all, there’s two tips I’ve heard in the past. First, is that to have a comfortable retirement, you want to have around one million in the bank these days. With inflation that will only go up.
Second, is that you want to aim for putting about half your post-tax paycheck into savings. Right now that’she not a concern for me, but once my circumstances change as I expect them to, I’ll be using that as one of my budgeting guidelines to aim for.
It just feels odd that despite having the lowest need to be responsible with budgeting currently of those I’ve discussed, I seem to be being the most responsible. And yet, I still seem to care less about it than others.
Speaking about being responsible, one last tip: credit cards shouldn’t be used as small change loan sharks, but as condoms for your wallet. If you don’t spend more than you have and pay it off in full, it’s no different than a debit card in convienience. However, if someone steals you debit card number, that money is gone until you convince the bank to reimburse you. If they steal a CC number, you still have all your money while you work with the bank to cancel the fraudulent charges. Finally, if you don’t pay it off, interest rates can lead to you digging a hole for yourself that you can’t get out of. I was headed that direction once, but used my current money-handling methodology to free myself from that trap.
Don’t really have anything else to add to this rambling now I guess, so I’ll call it here and see if I can actually get some sleep now!